Erin’s Story

A few nights ago, I was walking home from Theo’s, a dingy little restaurant on the outskirts of Lansing. I was strolling down Albert Street, completely alone. Because it was so late, no people were out on their porches. No cars were going by on the streets. There was nothing out there but me, a 20 year-old woman, my only weapon my purse and laptop case.

All of a sudden, I heard a trampling from across the street, and a guy — around my age — came sprinting down the sidewalk, screaming to his two male companions about how fast he can run while drunk. This made me a little nervous, but I figured they were relatively harmless MSU students, lost on their way home from a party. Suddenly, one of them turned around and yelled to someone passing by in a car, “Billy Crystal is a faggot.”

In the privacy of my own apartment, I do not pay much attention to political correctness. However, I do not use words such as “faggot” in public, as people who hear it may take me seriously and, in turn, feel intimidated by the word’s usage. I gave the young man a stern look, a small way of letting him know that his language was not okay with me. As an unarmed woman walking the streets alone at night, confronting him in any other way was out of the question. Soon I realized even this small confrontation was a mistake.

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A group of young men from Delta Sigma Phi hid inside their house and yelled at me through the window as I walked by around midnight last weekend:
“Hey, I’ll give you $10 for a blow job - $15 if you look me in the eye!”
“Relax, it’s a compliment.”
“You have a nice ass, I’d like to come in it.”
Thanks to these cowards, I have nothing to post but the whole frat.

A group of young men from Delta Sigma Phi hid inside their house and yelled at me through the window as I walked by around midnight last weekend:

“Hey, I’ll give you $10 for a blow job - $15 if you look me in the eye!”

“Relax, it’s a compliment.”

“You have a nice ass, I’d like to come in it.”

Thanks to these cowards, I have nothing to post but the whole frat.

If You Can’t Slap ‘Em, Snap ‘Em!

Today at work, my friend and I stumbled upon this: http://hollabacknyc.blogspot.com/

New Yorkers started this website to document street harassment in photos, videos, and text.  The idea was to stop hiding and to start interrogating the pervs themselves. In their own words:

Holla Back NYC empowers New Yorkers to Holla Back at street harassers. Whether you’re commuting, lunching, partying, dancing, walking, chilling, drinking, or sunning, you have the right to feel safe, confident, and sexy, without being the object of some turd’s fantasy.

It was relevant to our lives, living in a Big Ten college town where this happens to us all the time. 

So here’s the plan: we want to reproduce this idea here in East Lansing.  This is a space where you can call out pervs/turds/and other miscreants by posting your story, photo, or video of the perps.  You can do this in two ways: email your story/photo/video to hollabackel@gmail.com or submit it right here on the site using the “submit” tab. 

Although we can share these things privately with one another, we want to get public.  Who are we protecting anyway?

Holla.

—Stephanie and Lia

East Lansing, MI

THIS ABOVE ALL ELSE, REFUSE TO BE A VICTIM.
- Margaret Atwood